Has your partner all but given up on your relationship?
Does it seem like you’re the only one still struggling to fight the good fight for your love?
If you’re experiencing something like this it’s not the time invest in your union.
It is however a sure sign that you’re losing yourself.
Perhaps you lost yourself years ago.
If anything, it’s time to surrender your relationship and start fighting for you.
This doesn’t mean that you leave your partner, instead see that you have nothing to give right now. Is it possible that he’s giving up on you, because the real YOU… the intelligent, vibrant, sexy, bold and beautiful woman he fell in love with actually exited the relationship a long time ago?
Your power to transform your relationship lies in your ability to empower yourself.
You are not a victim, you are not his mother, you are not his buddy, you are not his daughter and you are not his counsellor. In fact, you don’t have all the answers, but what you do have is the wisdom you need to put yourself first, so that you can become the whole, magnetic and powerful woman you need to be in order to sustain his love.
The only way you can transform your partnership is by becoming the woman you know you truly are.
What are YOUR dreams, YOUR passions and YOUR purpose?
Discovering these and taking hold of them as though YOUR very life depends on it will give YOU the energy YOU need to go on. Is it possible that you exchanged your essence to keep his love? The only woman capable of influencing him to step up and be the man you need him to be is your best self.
Isn’t it time that you stepped up? Someone has to go first. He’s probably not giving you the love that you deserve. Perhaps he’s disconnected, disinterested in making love and all stressed out about his situation in life.
Underneath all of this, he is surely a man, just like you are every bit a woman. Stop giving to him and give to yourself. Find your rainbow so that you can appreciate, trust and respect him.
It’s time to step out of your distorted house of mirrors and give him the opportunity to mirror the best in you.