How to Sustain His Love for a Lifetime

Feminine Grace is the natural, strong, core energy for most women.

Once you discover how to use it effectively, you’ll be able to magnetize your partner to you in a way that sustains his desire and devotion for a lifetime.

By following your intuition, becoming more relaxed, communicating assertively and making yourself a priority you are automatically following your heart.

Following your heart is important because this is where feminine grace resides.

Tapping into your feminine grace allows you to transform the connection you have with your partner so that it’s close and intimate, even if he’s cold and distant right now.

This graceful strength and state of mind empowers you to feel good about yourself and focus on the positive aspects of your life and relationship with gratitude and compassion.

At times, you might be too exhausted and resentful to feel gratitude and compassion and that’s okay. When this is the case the fix is always self-care. When you’re frustrated the only way to fill yourself up is to spend time doing things that make you feel relaxed and engage your creativity.

Once you’re feeling balanced, you’ll be able to offer appreciation, trust and respect to your partner. This is the way a man desires to be shown love first and foremost. Essentially, this is unconditional love and it’s complimentary to the way you want to be loved. And how’s that? Being desired, cherished and his number one priority, of course!

If you’ve been feeling taken for granted, unloved and uncertain about the future of your relationship, you owe it to yourself to discover the power of your feminine grace within you. Along with empowering yourself, you’ll be able to adopt a lifestyle that reduces your stress, increases your energy and allows you to get your needs met.

By following your heart, you will begin to communicate and behave differently. You’ll start to see the positive influence this has on your partner, even if you haven’t been close and connected in ages. Changes will occur in your relationship as soon as you change your energy to become softer, more alive and inviting. You don’t have to work so hard! In fact, being a superwoman and having to take care of everything is the opposite of feminine grace, which is the balance of being strong on the inside, yet soft and vulnerable on the outside.

In order to have him move closer and look at you as though you’re the most beautiful woman in the world, you need to make yourself your highest priority. Think self care, self acceptance, self compassion and self love.

By making yourself your number one priority you allow him to mirror you and also make you his number one priority. When you come first everyone else in your life gets so much more from you than if they came first and you came last.

By sustaining a self loving and feminine (always a strength and never a weakness) approach to your life, you become secure in his love for you because you’ll receive daily reinforcement that he is attentive and committed.


4 Responses

  1. I love this article Susan! I just found your website a few days ago and I can’t stop reading… I really enjoy the encouragement and positive information you give. It is so helpful to be shown things in a different light and that’s what you do. I will follow my heart. Thank you for your good work!
    Renee 🙂

  2. Hi Renee,

    Thank you for taking the time to comment. I truly appreciate it and I’m pleased that you’re enjoying my blog.

    When we follow our hearts it takes a lot of courage, but it’s this very sort of confident vulnerability that allows us to bridge stronger and more intimate relationships.

    Thanks again and wishing you a wonderful day!

    Susan 🙂

  3. Hi Susan, I really enjoyed these tips… thank you! Sincerely, Sam David

Susan Blackburn

Susan Blackburn

About Susan Blackburn:

Susan Blackburn, M.A., C.Psych. is a Registered Psychologist, Psychotherapist, Counsellor & Therapist in Toronto at Yonge Eglinton, a Published Author and a guest Relationship Expert on radio and television.

Susan enjoys working with people to enhance the quality of their lives. Her collaborative psychotherapy and counselling approach offers clients effective tools and strategies to increase happiness, manage stress, find balance, improve confidence, embrace self care and focus on the positive so that they can relax and enjoy life.

Services are covered under most extended health benefits and workplace insurance plans requiring clients be seen by a Registered Psychologist through her registration with the College of Psychologists of Ontario.

Susan is the owner of Susan Blackburn Psychology a boutique therapy private practice located in midtown Toronto at Yonge and Eglinton.

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