Adult Individual & Relationship Experts Toronto

Susan Blackburn Psychology

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About Toronto Psychotherapy with our talented team of clinicians

Can You Relate?

Our clients are thoughtful, high-functioning people who look great on paper — but inside are often struggling with:

  • Anxiety, sadness, or burnout
  • Dating confusion or heartbreak
  • Situationships, breakups, or insecure and anxious attachment
  • Boundary issues, people-pleasing, or self-doubt
  • Communication breakdowns, conflict, or disconnection:
    • Feeling emotionally distant from your partner
    • Arguing about the same issues without resolution
    • Struggling to express needs without triggering defensiveness
    • Navigating differences in values, parenting, or intimacy
    • Feeling unheard, unappreciated, or stuck in unhealthy dynamics
  • Family-of-origin dynamics that affect everyday life
  • Life transitions, parenting stress, or feeling stuck
  • Work issues, mental load anguish, or overwhelm
  • Repeating patterns, low self-worth, or stress and exhaustion

 

You don’t need a crisis to benefit from therapy. If you want to find solutions, feel better, and build stronger relationships — you’re in the right place.

Your problems don’t have to be huge to benefit from therapy. First world problems are still problems. If you’re suffering even just a little bit, or a lot, therapy can help you to feel better, smile more and enhance your life in amazing ways.

Going to therapy doesn’t mean that something’s wrong with you, it just means that you want to be better than you already are.

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Our Approach

Therapy can help you solve problems, make decisions, communicate better, have happier relationships, resolve conflict, cope with stress, discover your strengths, find clarity, and change the beliefs you have about yourself, others, and the world around you in positive ways.

Whatever it is that you’re struggling with, we have the tools, clarity and support to help you overcome the issues you’re facing.

Over the past 20 years, our passionate, experienced therapists have helped hundreds of clients transform their lives and relationships in meaningful, lasting ways. Our online therapy meets you where you’re at with empathy, clarity, and practical tools.

We believe therapy should be a safe place where you can express yourself openly without judgment and say what’s on your mind. If you need to cry, raise your voice, or swear, we have no problem with that.

When you work with us we offer you a warm and compassionate place to speak openly without fear of being judged. Where you feel seen, valued and understood.

Therapy works best when it’s personalized, so our work with you is tailored to your unique needs instead of being one size fits all. We take into account who you are, your likes and dislikes, your personality, your beliefs and what matters most to you in deciding with you how to best help you to feel better.

We want what you want, which is for you to feel better, happier, calmer, and more confident as soon as possible. 

Our approach blends the depth of emotional healing with the power of evidence-based therapies like Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Interpersonal Therapy (IPT), Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT), Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT), Psychodynamic and Mindfulness-Based — supporting you to feel like the best version of yourself, build stronger relationships, and move forward in your life with hope and inspiration.

We don’t just sit back, take notes, and ask you “so, how do you feel about that?” We offer tools you can use, language to name what you’re going through, and effective strategies to achieve your therapy goals — all grounded in empathy, research, and real-life wisdom.

Our Focus Areas

Individual Therapy with Adults

We help you to discover the best version of yourself. Whether you’re navigating anxiety, low self-worth, or relationship patterns that no longer serve you, we support you to:

  • Find relief from negative thoughts and emotions
  • Build self-worth, boundaries, and emotional strength
  • Heal attachment wounds and limiting beliefs
  • Cope with stress, perfectionism, and people-pleasing
  • Sleep better, increase motivation, and find more balance
  • Get clear on your values and life direction

 

Dating & Relationship Therapy

Whether you’re single, newly dating, stuck in situationships, or have been together for a while, we help you:

  • Change your patterns of communication and behaviour
  • Understand attachment styles and develop a more secure way of relating
  • Heal from heartbreak, overcome fear of commitment, and shift your limiting beliefs
  • Build confidence in who you are and what you want
  • Develop healthier dating and relationship habits including partner selection and strong boundaries
  • Reflect on your values, relationship goals and finding a new path forward

 

Couples Therapy

We help couples move from disconnection to closeness, appreciation and respect. Using an integrated model, we utilize the Gottman Method, Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT), and attachment science, to:

  • Improve communication and conflict resolution
  • Rebuild trust and repair emotional distress
  • Increase understanding, empathy, and admiration
  • Deepen physical and emotional intimacy
  • Navigate life stages of living together, marriage, fertility, being new parents and in laws
  • Balance shared responsibilities, financial expectations, and different love languages

Why Clients Choose Us

  • We are focused on ensuring that you feel better as quickly as possible
  • Our signature blend of heart-centred care and practical skills and tools
  • Warm, non-judgmental therapists who meet you where you are at
  • Intuitive and research-based strategies for real, lasting change
  • Serving midtown Toronto and the surrounding area for over 20 years
  • Flexible Online daytime, evening, and weekend sessions available 7 days a week

What to Expect

  1. No-cost Discovery Call (20 min) — tell us what’s going on and see if we’re a good fit
  2. Personalized Therapy Plan — clear goals + collaborative next steps
  3. Compassionate Support — consistent sessions, practical tools, and real progress

We Understand You

People often say, “My life isn’t that bad—do I really need therapy?”

The truth is, you don’t need to be falling apart to benefit from support. Many of our clients are outwardly successful, but inwardly tired of struggling, overthinking, or feeling emotionally stuck.

If that’s you—we get it. We work with people just like you every day.

We admire your courage for considering therapy, and we’d be honored to support you. Our team of skilled, compassionate therapists is here to help you build a stronger relationship with yourself and those you care about.

Whether on your own, or with your partner, let us help you get back to feeling like yourself — or discover a stronger and more resilient version of yourself or your relationship than ever before.

Meet Our Team

Lorena Koenig

MSW, RSW
Clinical Therapist

Lauren Vaupshas

MACP, RP
Clinical Therapist

Susan Blackburn

M.A., C.Psych.
Registered Psychologist

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