Successful relationships are created by two people that have a clearly defined sense of self.
This strong sense of identity includes knowing what your values are, what you like, don’t like and how you want to express yourself through friendships, family relationships, your profession, a romantic partnership, hobbies and pastimes.
A man can’t make you happy, but if you know how to make your requests appealing, he can and will meet your needs and add even more happiness to your life. Your general level of happiness is an inside job that is entirely up to you. While you take care of that, allow him to lighten your load and assist you with creating extra happiness and the fireworks in your life. This he can do out of desire rather than obligation (the death knell of romance).
You are the only one that can create happiness for yourself by committing to a life that you’re passionate about… a life that best expresses your authentic self.
This is a classic, feminine recipe that is guaranteed to have him desire, cherish and make you his number one priority.
This recipe is guaranteed to increase your confidence, spiritual growth and overall well-being.
Do you have difficulty making your own decisions?
Ever feel unappreciated or taken for granted?
What about feeling guilty for considering doing what’s best for you at the expense of someone you love?
If so, you might just find yourself a little or a lot stuck in your life.
Why is that?
Second-guessing your life choices, being taken for granted and feeling guilty stem from not trusting and expressing your inner voice.
This is a continuation from my previous post Influencing Him with Your Light: Part I
If you’re shining like a 300-watt bulb, not only CAN you influence change in your man, but you WILL influence change in him. At this vibrational level of love and light (they go together) your heart will be open enough to heal, influence, inspire and guide anyone in your presence (even at a distance).
It takes a lot of TIME and plenty of SELF-CARE to shine this brightly, but making the commitment to increase your light is the best thing you can do for your relationship, career, health, friendships, family and finances.
Everything within relative proximity is influenced either positively or negatively by your vibration.
Are you familiar with the following quote from Albert Einstein?
“Women marry men hoping they will change.
Men marry women hoping they will not.
So each is inevitably disappointed.”
There’s definitely some truth in his words. I woke up this morning finally understanding why women not only hope but actually put a lot of effort into actively changing their men.
Deep within the heart of every woman is the instinctive knowledge that she’s graceful, powerful, vibrant, beautiful, courageous and intelligent. Along with this knowledge is the imperceptible understanding that she has the power to influence her man to be his very best.
So, if this is true then what’s the problem?
Do you wake up feeling confident and energized?
Especially now that summer’s coming to a close in the Northern Hemisphere, a few shifts in your thinking and behavior can make up for the decrease in sunshine and the natural boost it provides.
Do you have a rescuing or nurturing personality?
If you do, some of your greatest strengths will be your generosity, warmth and compassion for others. On the flip side, you will typically find it difficult to bestow kindness, generosity and love upon yourself.
In order to serve the people in your life consistently, while staying in good health it’s essential that you begin to nurture and perhaps even rescue yourself!
Having a happy relationship, rewarding career, enjoyable friendships, financial security and peace of mind is next to impossible without living with integrity.
And, it can be hard to live with integrity without knowing your core values.
Integrity is thinking and acting in ways that align with your core values and principles. You become authentic and attractive when your thoughts, communication, behavior and life choices are an expression of your highest self.
Your values represent your ideals, principles and standards for living and since you are unique, your core values will be different from everyone else’s. They can be used to steer you away from misery and chart your path toward a desirable life.
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