This is a classic, feminine recipe that is guaranteed to have him desire, cherish and make you his number one priority.

• Four gallons of consistently maintaining your light so that it’s soft, clear, balanced and radiant
• Two gallons of granting him his freedom
• One tablespoon of having your actions speak more often than your words
• Four tablespoons of speaking to him with kindness and respect
• Five heaping tablespoons of allowing him to be a man: single-focused, driven, protective, logical
• One large bushel of appreciating what he does for you with excitement (even the little things)
• Two cups (or more) of trusting that he’s always doing his best
• Three cups (or more) of enforcing your boundaries and handling (not to be confused with avoiding) conflict with grace
• One cup (or more) of respecting that he’ll figure out how to become a better man all on his own (without you saying anything or giving him your words of wisdom; simply by staying in and radiating the influence of your brilliant light)
• Two pints of granting yourself permission to be feminine with him and receive
• One half pint of being light-hearted, humorous, flirtatious and sexy

Serve with affection and benefit of the doubt even, and ESPECIALLY IF, he doesn’t deserve it.

This is a recipe that is effective rather than fair – please don’t confuse being in your light with putting up with bad behavior as they are polar opposites. Garnish with laughter, a sprig of confidence and a side of gratitude.