This is a continuation from my previous post Influencing Him with Your Light: Part I

If you’re shining like a 300-watt bulb, not only CAN you influence change in your man, but you WILL influence change in him. At this vibrational level of love and light (they go together) your heart will be open enough to heal, influence, inspire and guide anyone in your presence (even at a distance).

It takes a lot of TIME and plenty of SELF-CARE to shine this brightly, but making the commitment to increase your light is the best thing you can do for your relationship, career, health, friendships, family and finances.

Everything within relative proximity is influenced either positively or negatively by your vibration.

Are you familiar with the following quote from Albert Einstein?

“Women marry men hoping they will change.
Men marry women hoping they will not.
So each is inevitably disappointed.”

There’s definitely some truth in his words. I woke up this morning finally understanding why women not only hope but actually put a lot of effort into actively changing their men.

Deep within the heart of every woman is the instinctive knowledge that she’s graceful, powerful, vibrant, beautiful, courageous and intelligent. Along with this knowledge is the imperceptible understanding that she has the power to influence her man to be his very best.

So, if this is true then what’s the problem?

Feminine Grace is the natural, core energy in the majority of women. Once you discover how to use it effectively, you’ll be able to magnetize your partner to you in a way that sustains his desire and devotion for a lifetime.

By following your intuition, becoming more relaxed, communicating assertively and making yourself a priority you are automatically following your heart. Following your heart is important because this is where feminine grace resides.

Tapping into your feminine grace allows you to transform the connection you have with your partner so that it’s close and intimate, even if he’s cold and distant right now. This graceful strength and state of mind empowers you to feel good about yourself and focus on the positive aspects of your life and relationship with gratitude and compassion.

At times, you might be too exhausted and resentful to feel gratitude and compassion and that’s okay. When this is the case the antidote is always self-care. When you’re frustrated the only way to fill yourself up is to engage in activities that will support you in feeling relaxed and creative.

Once you’re feeling balanced, you’ll be able to offer appreciation, trust and respect to your partner. This is the way a man desires to be shown love first and foremost. Essentially, this is unconditional love and it’s complimentary to the way you want to be loved. And how’s that? Being desired, cherished and his number one priority, of course!

If you’ve been feeling taken for granted, unloved and uncertain about the future of your relationship, you owe it to yourself to discover the power of your feminine grace within you. Along with empowering yourself, you’ll be able to adopt a lifestyle that reduces your stress, increases your energy and allows you to get your needs met.

By following your heart, you will begin to communicate and behave differently. You’ll start to see the positive influence this has on your partner, even if you haven’t been close and connected in ages. Changes will occur in your relationship as soon as you change your energy to become softer, more alive and inviting. You don’t have to work so hard! In fact, being a superwoman and having to take care of everything is the opposite of feminine grace, which is the balance of being strong, yet soft. 

The catalyst to bringing him closer and having him look at you as though you’re the most beautiful woman in the world is you making yourself your highest priority. By sustaining this approach to your life, you become secure in his love for you because you’ll receive daily reinforcement that he is attentive and committed.

A return to the ancient ways is currently taking place. This societal shift will bring an understanding of masculine and feminine energy. It will motivate men and women to respect their differences and fully embrace equality. The current relationship template will be replaced by an ancient one, bringing about balance and empowerment for everyone. This return will also create more harmony, unconditional love and deep sexual chemistry between partners.

Helen Fisher, PhD, a Biological Anthropologist, Research Professor and member of the Center for Human Evolution Studies in the Department of Anthropology at Rutgers University has done research on the return of the ancient marriage. Her work mirrors widespread intuitive and spiritual wisdom about the return and documents some of the challenges and opportunities that we’ll face as relationship changes come about. One of the most amazing evolutionary experiences taking place is the heightened potential to sustain passion and romance for life.

When discussing the ancient relationship template, I refer to men and women instead of masculine energy partners and feminine energy partners. When I refer to women I am speaking to both the men and the women that have more feminine energy than masculine energy at their core. Men as well as women have both masculine and feminine energy, but one of these energies will always be dominant.

About 85% of women and 15% of men carry mostly feminine energy and the reverse is true with masculine energy. As core energy isn’t related to sexual orientation, you will find straight women, straight men, lesbian women and gay men with core feminine energy and the same is true for masculine energy.

Feminine energy is magnetic and is responsible for intuition, compassion and creativity while masculine energy is attractive and is responsible for logic, passion and action. Every romantic relationship will have a partner with mostly feminine energy and another with mostly masculine energy. When the feminine energy partner appreciates, trusts and respects her partner it inspires the masculine energy partner to cherish, desire and make her his number one priority.

Romantic love, cooperation and equality are created when the mind (masculine energy) follows the heart (feminine energy) and the two of you work together as a team. This creates a vibrant and loving partnership; a relationship that honors the masculine and the feminine.